When we want to get our ex back, we all tend to think the same kind of things. We’ve got to promise them we’ll change, we’ve got to do some fast talking, we’ve got to apologize fifty times.
But often one of the very best methods to get your ex back is to listen instead of talk. Know when to listen. Your ex broke up with you most likely because you did some wrong things, like had an affair or were too controlling.
As time went on, because of whatever you did, your ex’s heart began to fill up with negative emotions towards you. That’s why they dumped you. Their heart is now full of these bad feelings.
You can’t get your ex back as long as their heart is full of these negative emotions towards you and whatever you did. To get them back, you must actually help them to release these bad feelings, get them out of their heart.
There is actually a powerful way to help them do this. Get them to vent. Help them to get those bad feelings off their chest. Once they’ve done this, they will start to feel better.
Getting them to vent is one of the best ways to help them to let go of all the bad feelings that have built up in them. Yes, of course you will need to apologize and do some of the talking. But get them to talk first and it will make everything else go better.
Start off by asking them how what you did makes them feel. Then be a good listener. Don’t argue or defend or justify yourself. The idea is to get them to blow off steam.
If you can get them to vent a time or two, they will then have some room in their heart to feel good about you again. Your apology will likely be much better accepted.
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